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Divine Timing

Everything happens for a reason... I think we've all heard that before but timing is everything!! What's meant to be will always happen how its suppose to there is no need to worry about it every person on this earth has a different timeline ... its crazy we use to say oh ima get married by 25 have kids by 30 buy a house by blah blah blah... yeah no! lol ..divine timing is trusting the universe to play out how its suppose to.. trusting God.. letting things flow.. not stressing because what's meant for YOU is for Y O U meaning no one else is entitled to it and no one else is going to have it.. we have to reprogram our minds and stop comparing our lives to others... I know social media doesn't help but because society has programmed us to think if this person is doing this I should be doing this by this age ... but again what's for you is for you.. learn to let go and accept what's happening. Time waits for no one and in time everything will be revealed to you in ...

L.O.V.E...

WHAT  IS LOVE?   Before you start to ponder about your own definition this is what love is according to Google...  (1) an intense feeling of deep affection/ noun: (2)  a great interest and pleasure in something/ noun: (3)  feel deep affection for (someone)/verb: (4)  like or enjoy very much/verb Now what's your definition of love and how do you express it? How do you know if its real? I was reading something the other day and came across this acronym... L- i sten O- bserve V- alue E- mbrace I know today is mostly centered around romantic love, or Eros, because its Valentine's Day but what about self love? Or more importantly Agape love ..love that is unconditional and in the highest form. In first Corinthians 13:13 the bible states "and now these three remain: faith, hope, and love . But the greatest of these is love ." 1 Corinthians 4-8: "Love is patient, love is kind, it DOES NOT boast, it is not proud. It does NOT dishonor others, it is NOT sel...

Me vs. Me

  Good evening everyone (because its 8:48pmEST) I hope all challenges went well! Did you fully submit to the present moment or do you need to try again? I think I have to try again honestly because I don't know how to sit still sometimes (guilty) lol anyway... I want to stress again how important mental peace is.. guard it like your life depends on it, because it does! Figure out how to clear your mental space of all distractions, for this is very imperative. What's distracting you? Yeah, what's distracting you from being the best you or preventing you from your goals? You tired after work? You keep drinking your problems away never facing reality head on, look in the mirror. YOU are your only competition. Stop falling on excuses it's 2021 and after 2020 everyone should be very grateful for even making it through the year, the fact that we're breathing is a blessing alone! If you're not content right now and I mean if you were to die tomorrow.. would you truly b...

Appreciating Your Now

Good Morning everyone, Happy Sunday!! What a blessing it is to simply just wake up today and have another chance at life! N E V E R take it for granted. A fresh start, a fresh breath of air letting go of regrets and yesterday's worries. Let's learn to let go so we can fully appreciate the NOW aka the present. RELEASE as much as you have to! When is the last time you fully let go and lived in the moment? No worries, no stress, not thinking about what you have to do tomorrow or getting ready for work Monday morning... most of the time our mind is so occupied with thoughts, expectations, to do list, and memories that we forget to focus and enjoy our being our NOW!. What's happening at this very moment meaning we're not in it 100% if our mind is somewhere else right? Learn to control your thoughts, your thoughts do control your life so be very cautious with this. This week I challenge you to focus on your present. Give 100% in what you're doing or maybe not doing! lol ...

You Have To Heal In Order To Grow

This post took me a minute to write because I couldn't decided on a topic ..a lot of back and forth .. going forward there will be a weekly post .. and thank you all for your patience with my new manifest blog site... As some of you may know my blogs are a "freestyle" type post, I write about whatever is on my mind and things I have observed. I'm very open and blunt with whatever I feel like speaking on... there is no "right or wrong" I just write how I feel... I have observed and realized that a lot a lot of people hold on to past trauma, hurt, pain, resentment, etc ... things that have scarred them from their past and are currently hindering their growth as a person today. You ever met someone that's just bitter? Or nothing pleases them and/or they're just negative period! Not happy when they should be whether it be for them or someone else. Stuff that people keep inside and never talk about or never really face head on... its like they have kept a...

Alignment

  Ever wonder why some stuff doesn't happen how you had it planned? Or maybe you're stressing over something that isn't going your way or you think you missed out or made a mistake...    always remember what's meant FOR YOU is FOR Y O U! Believe that! It will happen exactly as its suppose to... alignment ,  its natural and nothing can get in its way.  Take it as a sign, after all your life is already planned out for you we just have to remember to enjoy the journey! Live and learn, move on, forgive, stay positive and NEVER stress about things that are out of your control. Life is too short so if you are stressed its imperative to not get stuck in that state of mind or if you're having a bad day its okay were going to have those but remember your mind controls your life! Think happy thoughts, stay optimistic, and know God has a plan! Whatever is destined for your life will come to past.. have FAITH! Live free without regrets and...

Standing In Your Own Way

  Welcome back everyone! Sorry about the delay for another post I've been contemplating what subject I wanted to speak on next and after having an enlightening conversation with one of my best friends we changed topics several times but ended up with "standing in your own way/decision making". It was something she said that hit home and I was like mm! Said a mouthful then! So I asked my best friend to write it down and if she would do an insert for my next blog and of course she agreed... this is what she wrote....     "What scares you the most about making decisions? Is it the fear of the unknown? Maybe lack of control? Or is it you're shielding yourself from both known and unknown triggers? Though you must protect yourself, don't stand in the way of divine timing! Each day STRIVE to be an autonomous individual, free and shed of all labels, curses, expectations, and contingencies. Do not waste time in emotional limbo and unsettling spaces. Doing that block...